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Love – that’s what it’s all about

Posted on February 19, 2012February 28, 2012 by Dot

I’m aware I posted about Valentine’s Day last week, but I didn’t tell you one of my favorite stories about the day. It’s about love. Not romantic love and not filial love. It’s about agape.

I had a friend several years ago who was a counselor at the crisis center where I worked. One winter day she drove to a West Tennessee prison to be with a client whose abuser was appearing before the parole board, asking for early release. She stayed through the day, supporting the victim with her presence and her caring until the hearing was over.

Afterward, emotionally drained, my friend decided to treat herself to a good meal in a fancy restaurant, so she drove into Memphis to an upscale eating establishment. After she was seated alone at a table for two, she began to relive the day and to weep for her client, a young girl who had bravely faced her offender once again.

My friend said that after several sympathetic looks from customers at other tables, even an encouraging pat on the shoulder from an older woman walking past — only then did she remember the date. February 14. Valentine’s Day. Surely everyone thought she was crying over a lost love.

Instead hers were the most precious tears of all. Tears of compassion shed for someone else’s pain.

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3 thoughts on “Love – that’s what it’s all about”

  1. Freeda Baker Nichols says:
    February 19, 2012 at 11:42 pm

    Wonderful insight for Valentine’s Day!

  2. pat laster says:
    February 20, 2012 at 12:04 am

    So this is the result of your reading, then journaling about what you read, or what your reading helped you to remember. Bravo! for reminding us of the greater love of compassion for others. p

  3. Linda Quade says:
    February 24, 2012 at 7:53 pm

    SO VERY TRUE!!

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Dot Hatfield is a member of the Arkansas Writers Hall of Fame and a Certified Lay Speaker in the United Methodist Church. She is the author of 7 books.

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