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Shopping Online

Posted on January 8, 2015September 17, 2017 by Dot

Shopping OnlineDuring the season just past, I did the bulk of my Christmas shopping online. Friends and family have been touting this for years so when my email inbox was flooded with ads on Cyber Monday, I decided to give it a try.

Other than the occasional book I buy from Amazon.com and Tom’s Shoes when I had a teenager at home, I had not shopped in this manner. I had certainly never needed to browse and choose gifts from pictures and written descriptions. (Come to think of it, sounds like the old Sears Roebuck catalog.)

When my family gets together each year (usually about the 4th day of Christmas) we all exchange gifts with each other. It is an event. Everyone is able to take part because we stay in the low dollar range. Of course, we have found that to do this, one has to be more creative about shopping than if one were buying tablets or laptops. It’s easy to spend lots of money on gifts, but to search Hastings’ sale table and find just the right book for someone is truly an accomplishment.

I bought from three different websites, paid no shipping, and everything arrived promptly and intact. A trip to Marshall’s in Cabot and I was done. The brand new Dollar Tree in Beebe furnished the stocking stuffers.

In the past my mode of shopping was: Visit the mall and look at everything in every single store; decide on the appropriate gifts; try to remember where they were; and go back and purchase them (if still available). This approach was quite time consuming, but I relished it. I really enjoy buying gifts for people I love. I didn’t think it would be as satisfying on a computer.

But it almost was. When the packages arrived from the various dot-coms, it was exciting. I got to open, examine, wrap and tag everything. And what I bought was well represented in the pictures online. (One does have to read the specs to know the size.)

The only down side to the whole gift buying scenario had nothing to do with the internet. It seems Marshall’s attaches price tags that absolutely do not come off easily (or at all). I had to peel and scrape (gently so as to not damage the gift). I do hate to give someone a book or frame that smells like Goo Gone! Perhaps I will suggest to Marshall’s that since they have such a nice array of merchandise for gift-giving, they might think of using price tags that don’t have to be sand-blasted off.

BTW, we take turns opening our gifts one at a time so each can see who gave what to whom.  That way, the fun lasts longer.

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The Fourth Week of Advent

Posted on December 22, 2014September 17, 2017 by Dot

Mary, the Chosen One

God sent the angel Gabriel to speak to Mary. The message Gabriel brought? God wanted Mary to play a special role in his divine plan. Even though she was an unlikely candidate for the job. Females in Jewish society were not seen as persons of much value. They were often considered property. They had no rights of their own; certainly a woman would not be seen as one who could have a hand in saving the world.

How shocking that God chose a young virgin to bear God’s son. But, that’s the way it is with God. He calls unlikely people. God didn’t ask Mary if she was willing. He expected her to obey.

Mary asked the angel, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?”

The angel answered, but he didn’t explain exactly how the Virgin Birth would work. He told her God would take care of things. God would be with her.

That was enough.

With a gigantic leap of faith, Mary accepted God’s call.

When God calls us to a task, may we be as courageous as Mary and Joseph.  May it be enough for us to know God will always be with us and that with God nothing is impossible.

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The Third Week of Advent

Posted on December 16, 2014September 17, 2017 by Dot

GOD’S GIFT TO US

Isn’t it amazing how quickly things become hackneyed?  Whether it’s fashion — skirts long or short, toes round or pointed — celebrities who come and go in popularity, hobbies we take up that begin to bore us, or relationships we out grow. Things we couldn’t live without — the boat, the rifle, the car, the house, the job — soon lose their newness and appeal and we are ready for something different, more exciting and challenging. Eventually, most of our interests become so trite, so… so… last week.

When the children of Israel were starving, and I mean starving in the wilderness, God gave them manna, fresh every morning, a miracle just for them. They were so grateful for this new versatile food. But before long they grew tired of the same old thing day after day for breakfast, lunch and dinner. They cried that they longed for a change in diet. Manna, God’s special miracle for his children, had become so last week.

In his indescribable love, God gave us the gift of his Son. God loved the world so much — he loved me and you so much — that he gave his son.

This is almost too great to comprehend. How could I ever feel blasé about it? How could I ever tire of the story of his birth, told in narrative and song, celebrated with friends and family in places decorated with lights and symbols of the nativity?

The story of how Christ came to live among us never grows cliché. The gift God gave us is experienced fresh and new every year when this season arrives, every week as we worship together, every day, every moment we choose to bask in the great love God has for us.

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The Second Week of Advent

Posted on December 7, 2014September 17, 2017 by Dot

REMEMBER THE REASON

Jesus is the reason for the seasonA few years ago someone came up with a catchy rhyme-phrase to remind us that “Jesus is the reason for the season.”  As often happens with catch-phrases, it became somewhat over-used, appearing on plaques, key chains, napkins and Christmas cards.

But the point is still well taken. There are times when any one of us might need to be reminded that Christmas is not about gifts and parties and decorating and shopping and cooking and eating and family dynamics. It’s all about Jesus coming into the world to be our Savior.

Matt Redman wrote When the Music Fades for his praise band to help them refocus on the true meaning of worship. It’s not really a song about Christmas but some of the words fit well here.

I’m coming back to the heart of worship
And it’s all about you. All about you, Jesus.

I’m sorry Lord for the thing I made it
When it’s all about you. It’s all about you, Jesus.  (Matt Redman, 1997)

We need to think about what we have allowed Christmas to become, we need to get back to the heart of Christmas. Because it’s all about Jesus.

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First Week of Advent

Posted on December 1, 2014September 17, 2017 by Dot

Notes on AdventHow much time every day do we spend waiting?  At the grocery store, in traffic, at stoplights, in the school pick-up line, on hold with Customer Service. Often we wait months for big events to happen — holidays, a wedding, vacation time.

Sometimes we spend that waiting time in tense impatience, so that even when the delay is over our mood is still dark and irritable. Other times we wait with eager anticipation, counting the days. Looking forward to an event with a light heart makes the occurrence even more joyous.

The Advent season is a time of waiting for the celebration of Christ’s coming to the world. This period can be spent in preparation for Jesus to come again into our lives. As we put everything in readiness for a wonderful celebration of Jesus’ birth, we can run about in a hysterical frenzy or we can focus on Christ and let him make this waiting time meaningful.

Rather than being distracted by all the activities and projects this time of year brings, let’s put the emphasis on the Christ Child.

As your whole being waits for the Lord, put your hope in his word, meet Jesus at the manger. It will be worth the wait.

I wait for the Lord, my whole being waits, and in his word I put my hope. Psalm 130:5 NIV

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Dot Hatfield

Dot Hatfield

Dot Hatfield is a member of the Arkansas Writers Hall of Fame and a Certified Lay Speaker in the United Methodist Church. She is the author of 7 books.

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