There are some movies I will watch over and over. To Kill a Mockingbird comes to mind. Others (Crash, One Flew Over the Cuckoos Nest) get only one viewing. Even though they may be excellent and win prestgious awards, the story line or telling is just too painful to watch more than once. I get the message and have no need to see it again.
I think Brothers, starring Tobey Maguire, Jake Gyllenhaal and Natalie Portman, might just fall in the second category. Marine Captain Sam Cahill (Maguire) loving husband and father, is shot down over Afghanistan and presumed dead. His family is devastated and black-sheep brother Tommy (Gyllenhaal) steps up to help grieving wife, Grace (Portman), and Sam’s two little girls get through the hard times. Cut to the war zone. Sam is not dead after all but a prisoner. He experiences horrible atrocities and only after several months of this and the death of all his men, he is rescued. He returns to his wife and children a different person. He can’t adjust to “normal” life and sees Tommy being the person he used to be and will never be again.
This movie was billed as a story about “(Sam) learns that his brother has gotten dangerously close to … Grace, and his kids.” And while that is in there, this is really a story about war and how it destroys a person. That the casualties of war aren’t always dead. That coming home alive isn’t easy for the career warrior. Since stories about the current war are box office poison, if this movie was billed as what it is, no one would rent it.
But should you decide to – these three actors were excellent in their roles. The two little girls were precious and Sam Shepherd and Mare Winningham did a great supporting job as the brothers’ parents.



One night recently, during Turner Classic Movies’ 31 Days of the Oscars, I watched (again) Ordinary People a wonderful film from 1980. I was first introduced to this movie about 1995 when I was training as a crisis line volunteer. The social worker conducting the session used excerpts from this story to show examples of post traumatic stress disorder and the young man’s dramatic breakthrough in his counseling. The few scenes I saw piqued my interest and I rushed out to rent and watch the whole movie. It’s a favorite.
This story of a missing child and his mother’s search for him was inspired by an actual event that took place in Los Angeles during pre-depression days, which makes it even more interesting to me. Angelina Jolie plays Christine Collins, a single mother who comes home from work to find her nine-year-old son missing. She challenges first the indifference and then the dishonesty and corruption of the LAPD Captain (Jeffrey Donavan) when he produces a young boy he insists is her son. She finds an ally in a local Presbyterian pastor, played excellently by John Malkovich. Though it is unusual to see Malkovich in such a sympathetic role, when he’s usually scaring us to death.