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The Third Week of Advent

Posted on December 16, 2014September 17, 2017 by Dot

GOD’S GIFT TO US

Isn’t it amazing how quickly things become hackneyed?  Whether it’s fashion — skirts long or short, toes round or pointed — celebrities who come and go in popularity, hobbies we take up that begin to bore us, or relationships we out grow. Things we couldn’t live without — the boat, the rifle, the car, the house, the job — soon lose their newness and appeal and we are ready for something different, more exciting and challenging. Eventually, most of our interests become so trite, so… so… last week.

When the children of Israel were starving, and I mean starving in the wilderness, God gave them manna, fresh every morning, a miracle just for them. They were so grateful for this new versatile food. But before long they grew tired of the same old thing day after day for breakfast, lunch and dinner. They cried that they longed for a change in diet. Manna, God’s special miracle for his children, had become so last week.

In his indescribable love, God gave us the gift of his Son. God loved the world so much — he loved me and you so much — that he gave his son.

This is almost too great to comprehend. How could I ever feel blasé about it? How could I ever tire of the story of his birth, told in narrative and song, celebrated with friends and family in places decorated with lights and symbols of the nativity?

The story of how Christ came to live among us never grows cliché. The gift God gave us is experienced fresh and new every year when this season arrives, every week as we worship together, every day, every moment we choose to bask in the great love God has for us.

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First Week of Advent

Posted on December 1, 2014September 17, 2017 by Dot

Notes on AdventHow much time every day do we spend waiting?  At the grocery store, in traffic, at stoplights, in the school pick-up line, on hold with Customer Service. Often we wait months for big events to happen — holidays, a wedding, vacation time.

Sometimes we spend that waiting time in tense impatience, so that even when the delay is over our mood is still dark and irritable. Other times we wait with eager anticipation, counting the days. Looking forward to an event with a light heart makes the occurrence even more joyous.

The Advent season is a time of waiting for the celebration of Christ’s coming to the world. This period can be spent in preparation for Jesus to come again into our lives. As we put everything in readiness for a wonderful celebration of Jesus’ birth, we can run about in a hysterical frenzy or we can focus on Christ and let him make this waiting time meaningful.

Rather than being distracted by all the activities and projects this time of year brings, let’s put the emphasis on the Christ Child.

As your whole being waits for the Lord, put your hope in his word, meet Jesus at the manger. It will be worth the wait.

I wait for the Lord, my whole being waits, and in his word I put my hope. Psalm 130:5 NIV

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Noah’s Journal

Posted on November 23, 2014September 17, 2017 by Dot

Since last I was here, much has happened — kids went trick or treating, we gained an hour in our day, and I went on a week-long writer’s retreat.

As I packed the projects I would work on during my week, I spotted Noah’s Journal and stuck it in the bag. The little black book was given to me on Mother’s Day in 2012 by Noah’s parents, Matt and Jessica. The front pages of the book lists prompts intended to help me tell about my life and times. Noah is my almost-two-year-old great-grandson.

On first receiving the journal, I began writing daily, inspired by the questions. But alas, as often happens, writing projects that don’t have a deadline are put on the shelf to be finished later. “Later” arrived with my retreat and since that time Noah’s Journal has become a priority again.

About 20 pages into the book it occurred to me that when he’s old enough to appreciate these stories, Noah may not be able to read my handwriting. It’s not that bad, but many schools no longer teach or use cursive writing … it’s all keyboarding.  So, now I print.

The prompt this week is about my varied employment career. I’m telling my great-grand about my first job, in 1950, at S.H. Kress (Variety Store) in Denison, Texas, where each counter had its own cash register and employees had to know math well enough to make change and count it back to the customer (who was always right). I was to keep my space clean and stocked and above all I must always look busy and not talk talk to my friends who might come in the store to shop.

For this I was paid 40 cents an hours, $3.20 for a day’s work (with 5c withheld for FICA). For a teenager, it sufficed.

I hope someday Noah enjoys reading this book as much as I am enjoying the writing.

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Musings from my nest

Posted on August 31, 2014September 17, 2017 by Dot

Jennifer AnnistonI have a ‘nest’ in my house where I read, write, knit and watch TV. When I read or hear something funny or noteworthy, I jot it down in a small notebook — for use later.

Just this week, I read on Yahoo News: “Jennifer Aniston speaks candidly about pressures to marry and have babies on the Today Show.”

Well, I should think Jen would be reluctant to marry on the Today Show, never mind having a baby!

I know what the writer meant. But that’s not what was said.

People often make humorous malapropisms out of old familiar sayings (thus providing me with fodder for posts like this).

“That scared me out of my living daylights.”

“If I knew now what I knew then.”

“I’d stay away from that with a 10-foot pole.”

And of course, Casey Stengel gave us many good lines/laughs. “They tell me it can’t be done but sometimes it doesn’t always work.”

When I pointed out a movie goof to my #2 son, Phillip, he said, “Now you’re pulling hairs.” (Perhaps he meant splitting?)

Okay, that’s it for now. As Jane Lynch says at the end of Hollywood Game Night:

“If you had half as much fun as I did, then I had twice as much fun as you.”

P.S. New look on the blog today. Thanks to my editor, blog host, #1 son, Steve May.  AldersonPress.com

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Writers Who Don’t Read

Posted on August 23, 2014September 17, 2017 by Dot

One of the things writers are admonished to do is to read. Especially in the genre they are currently writing. They should read a variety of writers, both current and classics.  Most successful writers I know do this.  But this is not what I’m talking about today.

I am almost at the end of my yearly gig as Contest Chair for the White County Creative Writers Conference. I don’t know how many years I have done this … four or five … and each time I am amazed at the writers who don’t read — the instructions.  We get essays sent to poetry contests, multiple entries to a single contest (only one allowed), no title on the title page, no title page at all, contests mailed to the reservation address and reservations sent to the contest chair.

If all this seems petty and tacky, I write in jest, not intending to offend. I am guilty of non-reading myself.  The first contest I ever entered (14 years ago) I couldn’t decide which essay to send, so I sent both. A kind contest chair called me and let me straighten out my mistake. I have never forgotten that and continue to pay it forward to other writers. Perhaps, as I was, they are new at putting their work out there. Certainly they are guilty, as I was, of not reading the instructions carefully.

As I write, the judges have read all the entries (198 of them), the winners have been chosen and will be announced at WCCW 19th annual Writers’ Conference, August 30.

Keep your fingers crossed. It’s hard to type that way, but it’s only a few more days.

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Dot Hatfield

Dot Hatfield is a member of the Arkansas Writers Hall of Fame and a Certified Lay Speaker in the United Methodist Church. She is the author of 7 books.

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