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Say what you need to say

Posted on January 10, 2016September 17, 2017 by Dot

One day a couple of months ago I came home to see a spray-painted line across my yard. This is never a good sign. It usually means that a utility company is going to dig holes, bring in large equipment, and generally make a mess — all for the greater good.

Sure enough, in early December it happened. The natural gas lines were being changed to a newer, better system. The workmen were polite, explaining what they planned to do, begging my pardon, and promising to be as quick as possible.

Rain slowed their work that week, and on the final day it was necessary for them to turn off the gas for the big switch-over. How could they know I was in the middle of cooking for a Christmas pot-luck? Nor was it their fault that I was not at home, having gone to the party, when they came around to turn the gas back on. They promptly came out the next morning.

When I related this tale of woe to a co-worker, she said, “Did you complain?”

“Oh, I’ve been complaining a lot,” I answered. Of course she meant had I talked to someone in charge. Which, of course, I had not.

So I tell this story to say this: I need to say what I have to say to the person I need to say it to.

Maybe that should be a New Year’s Resolution.  If I have a complaint, call Customer Service. If my food order is wrong, tell the server.

Just yesterday I complained on Facebook about a political ad that appeared 10 times during a 2 hour program — the same ad — 10 times. To be fair, what he said was not offensive, but he said it so often!

I know that homemade commercials are shown on the local programs with great frequency, but a national candidate on a national network?

So I complained to my friends on Facebook. Many people agreed and ‘liked’ my post. But really, they can’t do anything about it.

I should complain to someone who can fix the problem of redundant political ads. And I will. Just as soon as I figure out who that is.

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A Very Good Year — A Lifetime Achievement

Posted on January 2, 2016September 17, 2017 by Dot

The past year was good for me. I had vacation times with my children, a writer’s retreat, published a book of essays, and appeared as Mrs. Dubose in To Kill a Mockingbird. 

One particular highlight came in the fall at the Archie Awards at Center on the Square Theater. But let me give you a little backstory.

When I was 15 years old, I saw Annie Get Your Gun at the Dallas Summer Musicals. A quick 50 years later, I played a social matron in a production of that play in Madison, Tennessee.

I had long been smitten with live theater, and thoroughly convinced that “There’s No Business Like Show Business.”

Dot HatfieldIn 2000, shortly after I retired and moved to Arkansas, I attended open auditions at Center On the Square Theater in Searcy. I landed a part as the mother-in-law in Moon Over Buffalo. Thus began my career onstage . . . type-cast as a little old lady.

Sometimes I was a sweet little old lady — as in The Homecoming, God’s Favorite, The Miracle Worker, The Cemetery Club,  and It’s a Wonderful Life. 

Sometimes not so sweet — as in Lost in Yonkers  or To Kill a Mockingbird. 

Often I had a smart mouth — Bull in a China Shop, Moon Over Buffalo and The Women. 

And a few times I had either scattered my marbles or lost them completely — The Dining Room, No, Not Really, I’m Herbert, and Leading Ladies. 

Though it’s not my specialty, sometimes I spoke with an other-than-Southern accent  — Lost In Yonkers, I Hate Hamlet, and Hocus Pocus.

The past 15 years have been a tremendous amount of fun. As I said, I love live theater, whether I’m on stage, back stage, or in the audience.

Lifetime Achievement AwardIn October, at The Archies Award Night, I received a life-time achievement award . . . the first the committee has ever awarded. “. . . to someone who has dedicated the majority of (her) life to the arts. This is someone who has been in more shows than you can count. . .”

Actually, I can count them . . . twenty since 2001. And next time Center on the Square produces a play featuring a little old lady . . . who knows, maybe I’ll be there again.

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Christmas Past

Posted on December 26, 2015September 17, 2017 by Dot

December 26. It’s over. You made it. Now we can go back to business as usual.

I’m talking to those of you who dreaded to see the Christmas season come and are now glad to see it go. If you put up a tree, it’s already down and all the decorations are packed away for another year.

I’m sorry. I know there are many for whom this holiday is more painful than celebratory. I’m glad I saw more acknowledgement of that this year than I have seen before. Hopefully there was also more understanding for those who grieve or are lonely or simply discontent in some way or for some reason. Deep down there may be a certain joy that Christ came into the world as a baby to save us and give us eternal life. But on the surface it’s very difficult to “feel the Christmas spirit.”

Our pastor began the Christmas Eve message with “Christmas is just different this year.” And of course it is. With the anxiety we all share about the world situation, it’s hard to decide which is our reality: the concern in our hearts or the festivities going on around us.

The reality I cling to is this: The world has had some rocky years in the past. We are not the first generation to fear the future and probably not the last. God loves this world. He loves us. And that’s a reason to “celebrate.”

God Bless you on this Second Day of Christmas.

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Fulfilling our Purpose

Posted on December 20, 2015September 17, 2017 by Dot

On the top shelf of my guest room closet is a box of Beanie Babies.

Do you remember Beanie Babies? Small soft stuffed animals with bean-bag type innards. They were introduced in the Nineties and even without the help of social media, these little toys went viral.

Every child wanted — not just one, but as many as possible. As TY Inc. (the company making Beanie Babies) expanded the variety, boys and girls alike became interested in owning Spot the Dog, Chocolate the Moose, or Patti the Platypus.

McDonald’s got into the act by making a deal with TY to sell Teeny Beanies along with their Happy Meals. Local restaurants began announcing the day the latest toy would be released, encouraging a mad rush to the drive-through window.

Soon the news circulated that if the Beanie Babies were kept pristine, never taken out  of the bag or wrapping, their TY logo tag intact, they would be worth thousands of dollars — someday.

This created a frenzy of folks buying the toys as an investment — such as fine jewelry or art. No longer purchased to bring a child happiness, the playthings were stashed away until that day — in the future — when they would be worth their weight in dollar bills.

Someone wisely said that an item is worth big bucks only if you can find someone to pay a large amount of money for it. Today, online, there are sites that will buy Beanie Babies for 40¢ each. This is the going price for the common varieties. On the other hand, the rare Princess Diana Beanie, that TY deliberately kept scarce, is for sale on eBay for $149,000 — or make an offer.

This story reminds me of the admonition about hiding a lamp under a basket. Jesus said what a ridiculous idea that would be, to light a lamp and turn a bushel over it, preventing the lamp from doing its job. It was made to give off light. The sensible thing to do would be to put it on a high stand. The higher the  stand, the farther the light will spread.

Illuminating the world is God’s purpose for that lamp, if you will. But instead the light goes nowhere. In fact it eventually dies from the lack of oxygen.

Beanie Babies were made to bring joy to a child. A three-year-old can’t appreciate a toy being valuable ‘someday.’ A toy is precious to a child NOW. Not wrapped it a plastic bag, but loved and hugged and slept with.

I’m happy to report that the Beanie Babies in the top of my closet fulfilled their purpose in life.

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What Can I Give Him?

Posted on December 13, 2015September 17, 2017 by Dot

It occurs to me that most of my favorite Christmas music is old.  Like hundreds of years old. The universally loved “Silent Night,” has been around for almost 200 years, as have most of the carols we find in our church hymnals. Even the newer favorite “Mary Did You Know” is thirtysomething.

Even the secular music I enjoy the most is getting on in years: “White Christmas,” 1940; “The Christmas Song” (Chestnuts Roasting on an Open Fire), 1945; and “Santa Claus In Coming to Town”, 1934.

It’s just not easy to come up with a new song that says it as well as the old ones do. My sentiment, at least. Though Michael W. Smith gave us a very nice, “Welcome to Our World,” in 1997 (words and music by Chris Rice).

One day this week I heard a song about a little donkey who was scrawny, had long ears, and the other little donkeys all made fun of him. I didn’t hear all the song as I arrived at work and didn’t stay in the car to listen, but I think I know where it was going. Kind of like the reindeer with the shiny nose, maybe?

A song published last year but I heard it for the first time recently is “I Wonder What God Wants for Christmas.”  When I heard the title, I was thinking that a similar question was asked by Christina Rosetti in 1872, “What Can I Give Him?”

But as a friend shared Darius Rucker’s video of “I Wonder What God Wants…” on YouTube, a bit of the lyrics struck me. The melody is nice and the montage beautiful. Several items are listed that God might want: no empty pews in church, peace on earth, no Bibles covered with dust, and so on. The most amazing line of this song comes somewhere in the middle: “What if we believed in Him like he believes in us?”

Wow. God must believe in us. He trusts us to take care of the poor. He planned for us to love and comfort and encourage one another. He expects us to take care of the world He created.

“What Can I GIve Him, poor as I am?
If I were a shepherd, I would bring a lamb
If I were a wiseman, I would do my part.
Yet what I can, I’ll give him. Give my heart.”
Christina Rosetti, 1872

“More sister, more brother, more lovin’ one another
By now we oughta know what God wants for Christmas.”
Darius Rucker, 2014

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Dot Hatfield

Dot Hatfield

Dot Hatfield is a member of the Arkansas Writers Hall of Fame and a Certified Lay Speaker in the United Methodist Church. She is the author of 7 books.

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